Ever heard of a bucket list? It’s a list of things you have to do or accomplish before you die.
Most bucket lists focus on stereotypical wishes, such as traveling the world or buying something they’ve always wanted. But what about a sexual bucket list? What are the things in the bedroom that you should try out before it’s time to say farewell?
Don’t fret, we’re here to help you figure it out. Check out this list of different sex things to try:
1. Sex in Public
No, we don’t recommend something like having sex right in the middle of a restaurant or in the ocean. First, you might get kicked out and sex in the ocean poses a bunch of health risks.
Public bathrooms, in your car in a parking lot, or inside a dressing room are all on the table. If you want to get romantic with this idea, why not camp out and have sex under the stars or at the beach?
2. Use Some Toys
You can’t have a sexual bucket list without mentioning toys. There are so many options to choose from too, from vibrators to fleshlights and anal beads. No matter what turns you on, there’s bound to be some kind of toy that clicks your fantasies.
Tired of the traditional sex toys? Why not get a smart sex toy, like a smart vibrator?
These connect to a smartphone, allowing you or someone else to trigger when the toy vibrates. Some people make a living this way, inviting people to chatrooms and granting them access to their sex toy. People can only make it vibrate by donating cash.
3. Roleplay Sex
Who doesn’t want to try living roleplay fantasies? Let him be the boss and you the seductive secretary. Switch roles around and you can be the dominating policewoman and he’s the guy in “trouble.”
Are you the man in the relationship? Make things exciting by roleplaying a plumber who comes to fix a sink only to find the customer naked in the bathroom! There are so many different forms of roleplay too, so get creative and fulfill your sexual desires!
4. Anal Sex
Anal sex isn’t one of the most sexually adventurous ideas but it’s still something many haven’t tried. 60% of adults aged 20-24 haven’t tried it yet and 80% of women aged 20-39 haven’t attempted it yet.
Step out of the shadows and do it! That said, don’t rush into it. There are a lot of factors to prepare for: hygiene, lubrication, safety, and each person’s comfort zone.
Discuss it with your partner. It might turn into something you’ll both enjoy and include it as a regular part of your sex life. If it turns out painful or not as fun as you imagine, you can at least say you gave it a shot.
5. Professional Escort Services
Ever had a one-night stand? Sometimes, it’s always good to let loose and simply have sex with a stranger. However, don’t agree to sleep with anyone!
Instead, practice caution and only hire professional escorts. Escorts often practice proper hygiene and observe health standards to avoid anyone getting sexually-transmitted diseases.
They’re also experts in the bedroom and why say no to that? You get the guarantee that you’ll enjoy the time you spend with them.
Not sure where to find professional escorts? You can hire these services for a good start!
6. Making a Sex Video
Have you ever tried masturbating in front of a mirror or front of your partner? The prior lets you get a glimpse of what your partner sees while you have sex and the latter is a good method of foreplay. You can mix these two concepts by making a sex video.
Yes, there’s always the risk of the video leaking out, especially if someone manages to borrow your phone, camera, or laptop. That said, watching a video you made with your partner can intensely turn you both on. It’s better than watching porn because you two are the stars!
7. Threesome
Hoping for adventurous sex? Invite someone for a threesome. Don’t worry, it doesn’t have to be a friend; you can always seek out someone who’s into having sex with couples.
You might even want to hire an escort for a guaranteed fun time!
The good thing about threesomes is that it’s never the same. You can have a threesome with one extra male or one extra female. Step out of bounds a bit and let the other guy play with your boyfriend or let the other girl play with your girlfriend!
You can even incorporate some roleplay, toys, and BDSM into the mix. Try a scenario where the third person is the dominant and you and your partner are the submissive ones. Flip the scenario around next time to get a brand new experience.
8. BDSM
BDSM has many meanings but the generally accepted one is Bondage Dominance Sadism Masochism. It’s a delicate relationship between someone in charge and someone who sexually submits. It’s never about hurting someone for the sake of it — it’s about reaching out to their sexual limitations and fantasies to turn them on.
There are a bunch of kinky things to try but start lightly. Play around with handcuffs, ball gags, and tying your partner (or yourself) to the bed. Some people start with ice cubes, candle wax, and light spanking too. You can ditch all of these and stick with the basics of a dom-submissive relationship, like commanding your partner to give a blowjob.
9. Dressing Up (or Down!)
Do you want to give your husband a naughty surprise when he gets home? Why not put on a lingerie piece that leaves nothing to the imagination? Not only will it turn your partner on but it can boost your confidence too so take a moment in front of the mirror to appreciate your beauty!
Not fond of lingerie? Instead of dressing down, why not dress up? Who doesn’t love a hot girl in a French maid outfit or tight black leather?
Fulfill Your Sexual Bucket List Now!
Found something here that fits in your sexual bucket list? Don’t hesitate to give any of these ideas a try! You might discover a new sexual side you never knew was in you or your partner.
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